Nonku Williams and Dumisani Ndlazi'

Nonku Williams and Dumisani Ndlazi.
Screenshot via Instagram/ nonku_williams

‘He did something to me’: ‘RHOD’s’ Nonku believes RD used muthi on her

#RHODurban star Nonku Williams says she was not herself when she was in a relationship with her ex-boyfriend, Dumisani ‘RD’ Ndlazi.

Nonku Williams and Dumisani Ndlazi'

Nonku Williams and Dumisani Ndlazi.
Screenshot via Instagram/ nonku_williams

On the second episode of Real Housewives of Durban (RHOD) season four, Nonku Williams got candid about her failed relationship with Dumisani “RD” Ndlazi.


Opening up about the highly-publicised romance with her ex (whom she referred to as “Rough Diamond” or “RD”) the businesswoman said that she regrets everything.

Nonku, who was speaking to her sister in the Showmax reality series, said that RD was not even her type and she believes he used muthi on her.

“I don’t even want to call it a relationship, because it doesn’t qualify because that was not me,” she said.

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Nonku says she judged herself many times for her romance with her ex.

“I was my worst nightmare. I was condemning myself more because I went everything I believe in,” she added.

The mother-of-three told her sister that RD might have used muthi on her.

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“I really believe that the person dud that something to me. The way everything happened… he’s not my type. And I did find muthi in one of his bags.

“Can I tell you every single time we were together I was drunk?. I just thank God I was able to escape that nightmare.”

She also added that this was one of the few times that she was able to speak about the situation and not break down.

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The former couple made headlines and trended for all the wrong reasons last year, including rape and scamming allegations levelled against RD.

According to a 2014 article by the Zululand Observer, the businessman was accused of allegedly raping a 20-year-old woman. He was arrested and later released on R2 000 bail. In addition, a media statement on the South African Police Services (SAPS) website revealed that he was sentenced to 10 years in prison in 2016.

While Nonku was aware of the case, she vehemently told ZiMoja last year that nothing anyone says about RD would come between them. She further revealed that, according to his version, he was falsely accused and only served six months behind bars.

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