Prison Journalism: The role my mother played in my life

What would life be without mothers? We would not be here at all. They are the reason for our existence; they give us life. Some of us were not blessed to have a mother figure in our lives for various reasons. This is how my mother shaped me into the man I am today. May God keep you safe, and this article is for you, Mum. I love you and miss you.

Growing Up Without a Father

I lost my father due to his sudden passing when I was a young boy. My mother had to replace him; she had to do the job of both parents for five kids. I don’t know how she got up every day and filled the shoes of both my dad and herself. It amazed me. I was only 15 years old at the time, and I decided to follow in her footsteps and lend a helping hand.

My Teenage Years Transformed into Adulthood

My decision to assist my mother sent me toward a future of firm structure, values, morals, and lessons. If I had not learned these harshly, I would not have been able to deal with most of life’s issues. I cannot relate to any fun teenage years. As I think back, I was fulfilling the role of an adult as a young boy. I had to sell drugs as a teenager to help out financially in the household.

The Most Important Lessons My Mother Taught Me

My mother was a beautiful woman, especially on the inside, and with that, I grew as a person. She came from Madeira (Portugal) and had certain cultural ways of doing things. Respect is a first in everything you do. Always be honest with yourself and those around you. Look after yourself but remember to put others before you at times. Remain humble to allow yourself to learn new things. Take time every day to reflect on yourself and the day you had. Lastly, in everything you do, put God first!

The Impact She Still Has on My Life Today

Ask any woman who knows me, and they will say I am a lady’s man. My mother groomed me to be a gentleman. I sometimes get told that I have alternative agendas when I treat women the way my mother brought me up. Every day, I come across things in my life that remind me of what my mother left me with.

I cherish everything she did for me!

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