Six ways to survive Christmas with the in-laws this year

It’s Christmas! Food, booze and, of course, family members.

The situation can be quite peculiar for married couples, though. They have to alternate their Christmases between two families and it can become quite dueling at the end of the day.

If you got the short end of the stick, and you’re going to the in-laws this year, here’s some helpful tips for coping and keeping your sanity.

1.Do not neglect your spouse or kids:

It’s only fair to each side to alternate your Christmases between the two families. Try to keep your focus on your spouse and children and make sure they are enjoying themselves. If you have fairly young children, create some special memories with them so that they will always remember what a special time Christmas is. basically, just be more like Phil Dunphy:

2.Don’t be a picky eater:

Potatoes and roast maybe aren’t your thing, but to them it’s their favorite Christmas meal and basically a tradition. if you want to eat something else, how about offering to provide it. Maybe it will become tradition for you to bring your favorite noodle salad.

3.Don’t pick fights with your spouse:

Just because you’re a little bit irritated, don’t take it out on your spouse. It will end badly. Remember your spouse is your partner in crime and you’re on the same team.

4.Don’t argue with the in-laws just to make a point:

Don’t agitate the situation by pushing your political views on them or whatever you might be arguing about. You’re just causing friction and might be damaging your relationship with the in-laws to a point when there’s no turning back. Pick your battles wisely.

5.Don’t be antisocial:

Take part in all of the family activities and slap a smile on your face. You don’t want to be known as the spouse who ‘sucks the fun out of everything’, do you? Stay positive and don’t turn into the Grinch Who Stole Christmas!

6. Help out why don’t you!

Ask your in-laws if they need help with something. Whether it is in the kitchen or asking to mow the damn lawn, just ask and be helpful. This way nobody can complain about you being lazy or arrogant.  It’s a win-win man!

Before you know it, you will be home, planning the next Christmas all over again.