A self-proclaimed Kim prophet says Kelly Khumalo has the answers to Senzo Meyiwa’s death. Images via Instagram @kellykhumaloza.
How Kelly Khumalo’s therapist approaches her healing journey
Kelly Khumalo’s therapist Anele Siswane reveals the three approaches he uses to guide her on her journey of healing. Take a look…
A self-proclaimed Kim prophet says Kelly Khumalo has the answers to Senzo Meyiwa’s death. Images via Instagram @kellykhumaloza.
South African singer Kelly Khumalo’s clinical psychologist and spiritual healer Anele Siswana shares three approaches he uses to guide her on her journey of healing.
According to Showmax, Siswans uses the following approaches to help Kelly on her journey of healing.
1. ORGANIC RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN KELLY AND SIWANA
Siswana said that Kelly found him when she was looking for a therapist for her personal journey of healing. This coincided with the launch of her reality show – Life With Kelly Khumalo. So, the therapist/client relationship was organic.
“So, on season one it was predominantly based on the idea of her coming for therapy for her own journey like any other person. An opportunity then came for me to assimilate myself into that role where it became a TV thing,” he said according to Showmax.
Siswane also felt that being apart of the show was organic because it is unscripted.
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2. HEALING OLD WOUNDS – KELLY AND HER MOM
Siswana revealed that healing old wounds is important in therapy. He approached this not just with Kelly, but also her mom Ntombi.
“Those sessions have helped me to be a very grounded therapist,” Anele shared, adding that he goes through a process of ukuphahla and prayer before every therapy session to ask for guidance for the day.
“I knew the source of Kelly’s pain is the relationship with her mother. So, to make it work I can’t individualise her story without the one who is supposedly bigger in the story, and that is the mother,” he continued.
3. FINDING COMFORT IN DISCOMFORT
Siswana believes that being comfortable in discomfort is key in your journey towards healing.
“I had to hold space for both of them… I always say with them ‘go and sit with the discomfort of being uncomfortable about your relationship’ because it is that very same discomfort that’s going to be a holding space for what needs to happen,”
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