Couple who billed no-show wedding guests, defend their actions

A US couple who billed their wedding guests for not showing up on their big day have defended their actions after widespread backlash.

Doug and Deidra Simmons faced criticism after they posted an invoice directed at guests who did not attend their wedding on social media.

Destination wedding

The couple tied the knot in a destination wedding in Jamaica.  But eight out of the 109 guests who RSVPed were a complete no-show.

The couple then threatened to invoice missing guests $240 (almost R4 000) after they “confirmed seats during the final headcount”.

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The couple claimed they were “hurt” by the actions of the wedding guests who did not inform them of their actions.

“We didn’t actually know that these people didn’t show until literally the day before the ceremony…It was kind of messed up”, Deidra told Inside Edition.

And Doug is defending posting the invoice on social media, claiming he never actually intended on forcing the guests to pay him any money.

The couple claims they simply wanted the guests to call and communicate that they were not going to be attending.

“I wanted them to understand and see how we felt,” said Doug.

MIXED REACTIONS FROM TWEEPS 

Whilst a few tweeps called on the couple to “get over it”, there were some who agreed with their actions, labelling it “common courtesy”.

“I agree with them.. I feel like if you couldn’t come, you should have said so,” claimed one. “Common courtesy is if you can’t make it somewhere you notify the individuals who are expecting you. It shows respect for yourself and the other individuals expecting you”, said another.

“Sounds about right. Don’t confirm if you’re unsure”, said a third.